MEET ANTHONY
WHY ME?
I have a unique flavor of coaching that I have been accumulating, integrating and embodying my whole life. As an infant I was adopted and had to work through abandonment issues. As a young man, I was closed off and avoidant and had to work through opening myself up. As a father, I have had the opportunity to parent my son to become the young man he is now, and am grateful for my own growth through the process. As a divorced man, I had to really take an overview of that relationship and all those before and after it to see where I could have done better, and witness my patterns clearly that didn’t serve me or my partner(s). As a man now in his 50’s, I am in the healthiest and best relationship I have ever had, having a much deeper and impactful experience by just being myself and showing up authentically. The work I have done has been a culmination of Authentic Relating, mens work, growth intensives, therapy, voice expansion, great books and podcasts, working with some amazing coaches and mentors, running my own men’s groups, leadership teams and most importantly, leaning into my own discomfort. I am still learning, growing and healing. This is a never ending process, which I am grateful for everyday.
LOST YOUR EDGE?
I help men reclaim their edge by rebuilding the foundations of disciplined self-leadership, emotional mastery, and intentional self-care. My mission is to support men in leading their lives with clarity and purpose—grounded in who they are and capable of creating deeply aligned, loving partnerships and living the life they desire.
MENS COACHING
THESE 3 PILLARS ARE THE PATHWAY
Clarity is King for your Queen
Clarity helps to minimize conflicts arising from assumptions or misinterpretations. When expectations and boundaries are clearly defined, there is less room for confusion, leading to fewer arguments.
Emotional Maturity is a Superpower
Emotionally mature men are better at managing their emotions. They can recognize their feelings, understand their triggers, and respond to situations thoughtfully rather than reacting impulsively, which leads to a more stable relationship dynamic.
Lead Yourself First, then Lead Others
By leading themselves, men can cultivate emotional intelligence, which helps them recognize and manage their own emotions as well as understand their partner's feelings. This can lead to more meaningful and supportive interactions.
TRAINING
COACHING CERTIFICATIONS
Co-Active Fundamentals Training - online
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AUTHENTIC RELATING
Level 1 Course - Uvita, Costa Rica
Level 2 Course - Boulder, CO
The ART of Intimacy - online
The ART of Embodiment - online​
MENS WORK
Man Uncivilized with Traver Boehm:
• Leadership Course - online
• Kill the Nice Guy Course - online
• The Uncivilized Man Course - online
• Leadership Team in-person Brainstorming - Jefferson, CO
Uncivilized Group Affiliations
• Pursuit of Mastery
• Renegades
• Leadership Team
• Lead the Asheville Uncivilized Chapter men's group (8 men)​
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John Wineland
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The Paths of the Embodied Masculine: The Path of the King - online
The Intimacy Intensive -- A 3-day immersion - Into the Art of Embodied Intimacy and Yogic Sexuality - online
Local Asheville Mens Groups (2) - Uncivilized (8 men) and my own (3 men)​
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IMMERSIONS
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​Tony Robbins Unleash the Power Within - San Jose, CA​​
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Abraham Hicks Law of Attraction - 3-Day Event - Atlanta, GA​
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Eric Thomas 2-Day Event - Atlanta, GA​​
VOICE EXPANSION​​
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Barbara McAfee Voice Coaching• Opening the Voice of Courage - Bangor, PA
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Full Voice Fundamentals - online​
VISION QUEST
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Night on the Mountain of Fear Ceremony - Spirit Canoe Lodge, Warrensville, NC
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“You are always one choice away from having a different life.“
CLIENT PRAISE
Chip D.
I wholeheartedly recommend Anthony Delia for anyone seeking positive change and growth in their lives. I've personally worked with him and experienced firsthand the transformative power of his coaching.
He possesses a remarkable ability to listen deeply, ask insightful questions, offer practical strategies and provide unwavering support. He creates a safe and encouraging space where you can explore your challenges, identify your goals, and develop a clear path to achieve them.
What I particularly appreciate about Anthony's approach is his focus on relationships and my inner strengths. This personalized approach has helped me to improve my relationships and boost my confidence.
Jason B.
While working with Anthony, I had to navigate one of the most difficult chapters of my life—the dissolution of my 27-year marriage. I felt overwhelmed, angry and unsure of how to move forward.
His guidance helped me reconnect with my inner strength, redefine my values, and begin healing with clarity and purpose. He didn’t just coach me through the pain... he helped me redesign my life.
What also sets Anthony apart is how deeply rooted and well-connected he is in this community. Through him, I was introduced to resources and people who have become an integral part of my support system. His presence and impact go far beyond coaching—and the results have been nothing short of transformational.
Joseph K.
Working together with Anthony gave me space and the guidance to start to process my personal and professional challenges in a more intentional way - helped me slow down, reflect and shift how I respond to stress. I’ve become more self-aware in my relationships and I’ve been able to implement daily practices that have helped me stay calmer and more grounded throughout the day.
He has a nice calming presence, a great sense of empathy and is very good at holding space in a non-judgemental way. He is present and does not rush anything. Great listener with the ability to relate to challenges from personal experience. I felt heard and supported in our sessions.
